Community rules

Everyone here is an adult who chose to be here. These rules keep the rooms worth coming back to.

Instant ban

• Anyone under 18, or any sexual talk about minors. We report it to the authorities.
• Threats, blackmail or sextortion.
• Sharing anyone's intimate images, private details or messages without their consent.
• Selling or buying sex or sexual services.

Right room, right topic

• Keep conversations on the room's topic. The lobby is for everything else.
• No sexual content in general rooms.
• Keep it clean in every room. Adult conversation belongs only in the optional R18 rooms, which are off by default and only visible to members who've switched them on.

Photos

• Photos are for private messages only, between contacts who both have R18 on — and only after the person receiving them has allowed it.
• Only send photos of yourself, or of adults who've agreed to that photo going to that person.
• Don't ask anyone for photos after they've said no, and never pressure or pay anyone for them.
• Don't screenshot, save or pass on a photo someone sent you. Sharing an intimate image without consent is a crime.
• Got a photo you didn't want, or one of someone who didn't agree to it? Report it — it's hidden straight away.

Profile photos and names

• Your profile photo (a Premium feature) must be of you, or not a person at all. No nudity or sexual content: everyone sees it.
• No photos of anyone under 18, and nobody else without their permission. Photos are checked by a moderator before other members see them.
• Display names and usernames must not impersonate anyone, include contact details or links, or be sexual.

Group chats

• Only invite people who'd want to be there. Anyone can leave a group, and the owner can remove people.
• The room rules apply in groups too. Adult conversation only belongs in groups marked R18, where everyone has R18 on.
• Don't share what's said in a group outside it without everyone's agreement.

Be decent

• No harassment, hate speech, or messaging someone again after they've said no or blocked you.
• No spam, scams or advertising. Links aren't allowed in rooms at all.
• No asking other members for money, gift cards or crypto.
• No bots or automated accounts. (If we ever switch on our own AI chat companions, they're labelled as AI on their profile card.)
• No pretending to be someone else.
• Don't post your own or anyone else's address, phone number, workplace or surname in rooms.

Staying safe

• Never send money to someone you've met here, whatever the story.
• If you meet someone in person, meet in public first and tell a friend where you're going.
• If someone threatens to share your images, don't pay. Keep the evidence and contact Netsafe (0508 638 723) and the police. In an emergency, call 111.

Tell us

Tap anyone's name to report or block them. Reports are confidential. Blocked members can't message you or see you online. Anyone — member or not — can also use our complaints form. We act on non-consensual images, possible minors and illegal content within 48 hours.